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I felt a little better about this weekend. Well Sat I did and part of Sunday as well.
Improve was fun I felt like I did better although now I want to play the games all the time. LOL

I am getting a lot of encouragement from my fellow cast members and that is a nice feeling to get that type of support. Although Sunday really got to me at the end of the day during Chess match run. Almost got my head chewed off a few times by the fight director, and my partner would not let it drop either.

Sometimes I think I should get a gag for him so he can shut up. It was like a lot of people were in a bad mood over something that I had missed but I do not know if I really want to know what the hell happen on Sunday. I just know that I had to keep telling my partner to focus on me and not on the assumptions of what happen that day. I told him this is how rumors get started just carry on with the practice he then told me that you can stomp a rumor out if you know what is going on.

Okay so it is a fucking lose - lose situation.
1) If it’s really important every one will be told at morning meeting.
2) Just drop it and don’t argue with me when I have a sword in my hand. [heh not like I would really do anything but common sense]
3) THIS is what I hate about scarbby about Rumors and gossip.

Any ways I know Iam complaining a lot about my partner right now I guess I am not used to someone with his personality type. He isn’t such a bad person but there are certain things he is not very smart about. Like.. This comment..

“I may not have the best fight but I have the prettiest fight partner”


Is it just me or is just as bad as the customer calling me a fucking peach. I guess he was trying to be nice and good thing I was to tire to scream at him about that.

And he keeps complementing me on my looks and I personally hate! Yes people I hate sometimes because it makes me feel uncomfortable. I rather get praises for being smart than looks it’s like I am not all that great in personality.

V_V – sigh

I did greatly appreciate the Thatcher helping me out on the Gauntlet that really helped my char a bit on how tough she really is. But then again Thatcher is just an awesome guy. I feel lucky when I get to play with him in classes I hope I get a chance to play with him in the lanes. Heheheheh

I can not wait for Maypole four way wrap to look better too! ^_^
I think it will be great! And I want the best for maypole! YAY!

Oh yeah on the bright side Redwing is on her way to NY to audition for Opera Chorus up there. I hope she does well. I did tell her to break a leg.

In other news..

RPG on line..

Okay there is something about a person teaching a class online about certain topics that she can not even practice that bothers me. I am almost tempted to just try to go for warden myself and show this harlot up. Yes as you can let I really loathed this teacher and would love to stab her in the face many, many times. But then again I am on a new char and I can not do anything about it. It’s one of those things were I would almost be tempted to bring back Soull3laze just to see her wince.

Comments

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auxiliarypriest
Mar. 15th, 2004 10:04 am (UTC)
Hey, I think you're pretty and smart, or pretty smart. Hehe, I'm a comedian. Take a compliment, enjoy it, and then show your partner that you've got a brain in the red hair.
twilightfenix
Mar. 15th, 2004 10:15 am (UTC)
I have tried this Aux, I just gave up after explaining a few things to him and he just shook his head.

:shrugs:
auxiliarypriest
Mar. 16th, 2004 05:16 am (UTC)
Well then, on to plan two. Kibosh him with your sword. Usually large mounts of pain help out (joking). Seriously, is there any kind of executive action you can take against him, such as in a sexual harassment way. If so, give hima warning and then take action. Its not nice, but neither is being bothered like that.
tigerlady1974
Mar. 15th, 2004 10:53 am (UTC)
Your fight partner...
Is mentally insane. Yes - literally! He drove Smokin_Man to cursing and down-right disgust several times last year when they were partners in chess match. Because he is your partner ...the fight director will change your fight and/or interrupt it multiple times... just take it in stride and if you want to tell him to take a flying leap - do so. Most people avoid him when being matched up for Chess Match fight because they refuse to be his partner. Don't let him walk on you or bug you. If he makes another sexist comment - inform him that you have a brain and hate being complimented on something as shallow as looks. If necessary - claim sexual harrassment. Hang in there!!!

*Huggles*

-Manda
twilightfenix
Mar. 15th, 2004 11:05 am (UTC)
Re: Your fight partner...
I wish I had more warning .. ::sighs:: Oh well someone had to deal with him.. I guess I can just set him straight frimly.
tigerlady1974
Mar. 15th, 2004 11:18 am (UTC)
Re: Your fight partner...
Had I known sooner - I would have warned you away from him...but I'm clear across Faire usually during Fight Call....so I had no idea you got stuck with him until the second or third weekend in. Sorry!!!

*Hug*

-Manda
twilightfenix
Mar. 15th, 2004 11:26 am (UTC)
Re: Your fight partner...
Meh.. Well I suppose I should feel more valid that I am not the bad guy in this situation
tigerlady1974
Mar. 15th, 2004 12:10 pm (UTC)
Re: Your fight partner...
Nope - you ARE NOT the bad guy. He has a hard time finding anyone to fight him at Chess match because he changes things constantly, insists he is a good fighter (better than the director sometimes), won't show up to extra practices after several changes were made by him & the director, etc. People just flat-out don't want to work with him - so usually a newbie gets stuck with him. You aren't a newbie, but since you took a year or so off...you didn't know how horrible he is to work with.

If it gets really bad... bow out of the fight or talk with Janna.

*Hug*

-Manda
smokin_man
Mar. 15th, 2004 01:38 pm (UTC)
I Do feel your pain...
Which is why when he suggested subtley about fighting together this year, I bluntly told him "No F-ing way".
He can be a great guy when he wants to be, but there is a lot of "sour-grapes" history with him that he simply can not let go of. He despises Tawn because he doesn't teach the fighting system the way his "original" fight director taught. Your partner dogged on me a few times about "always agreeing with Tawn on everything". So, I attempted to explain (many times) that
1) It's Tawn's call as far as what HE wants to see during the match. He's the guy in charge as far as I'm concerned, and its no different than if you were practicing lines on stage and your director wants to change the dialogue. Its that simple.
2) If Tawn being in charge is such an awful thing, then your partner shouldn't have signed up for it AGAIN.
3)
smokin_man
Mar. 15th, 2004 01:41 pm (UTC)
Re: I Do feel your pain...
3) When your partner runs his own show he can feel free to call his own shots.

You're going to find that with this person, anything you say is being completely ignored, or he has a BETTER way/answer. I just learned to go with the flow, do the best that I could with what I had and made a mental note to NEVER perform in that capacity with him again.

Like I said, he's not a BAD guy. he's just got some weird quirks and a bagful of sour grapes.

Hope this helps a little.
*hugs*
twilightfenix
Mar. 15th, 2004 02:16 pm (UTC)
Re: I Do feel your pain...
Yeah I totaly agree with that completely.

Thanks for the information and advice ^_^

:huggles::

Stephers
snow_lynx
Mar. 15th, 2004 03:59 pm (UTC)
Bah, if I had known you would get him for a partner, one, and if I had known he was a problem in ways other than throwing people,two, I'd've helped fix that 'problem' in some inventive way, I'm sorry!

And yes, he was loitering around behind me while the discussions were going on, I didn't see him. He was pointed out to me and blatently told he was NOT part of the discussion. So I turned around and said "Shoo" and he left. I'd've been kinder about it but I was in no mood. *shrug*

No worries, all is well. AND if he does anything untoward to you, I'll kill him and filet him.

Okay, resume printing time. :)
twilightfenix
Mar. 15th, 2004 04:13 pm (UTC)
0.o;

You know It was just an very strange day @_@
sage1217
Mar. 15th, 2004 10:43 pm (UTC)
Annoying Gnats
Tell him straight out, just like you do with the twits online! "What part of many women find how you say things...offensive..or it makes them uncomfortable, don't you get?" Some don't know it... he might or might not..but if you tell him to stop and he doesn't then...thats a different ballgame and pull out the dirk!

Or...if straight out doesnt work for you...pantomime a ear infection and tell him you can't hear and not to bother talking to you... unless of course he signs...

Or...there is always..."Oops, I don't know how my sword managed to slip and...nearly castrate you.. Perhaps you should take the day off?"

And lastly....just like that lovely Warden...::smiles:: Just tell him.. "You know...You are just so much more of an advanced player, I think you should be paired with someeone different....much, much different...than lil ole me..."

And if that doesnt work... I would say...trip him.

Brought to you by an ex-nice person...have a good day oops...speaking of "EX" did you ever hear those old jokes about exlax brownies? Perhaps a lil treat for your partner would be nice? Bake him into the outhouse for the day?

Lastly, if all those fail, My Lady... learn to accept compliments with grace...::smiles:: For you are pretty...
xkookykrysx
Mar. 19th, 2004 05:03 pm (UTC)
who's your fight partner? and do they know that you have a really huge boyfriend? ;)
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