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small update

Just got back from BigPitt's Wedding..
It was really nice and got to see alot of my old friends. I really do miss them alot, although I love my work now it's just not the same as it was. But life changes I got to move with the times..

Any ways...

I told some of yah at the wedding I am never getting married.. which was a joke, I personaly love to get married but now isnt the time for any one of us. First off I think money is the issue and second just not ready yet. Only been together for 2 1/2 years.. Some people I know bitch alot about not being married and I say Get a clue.. I have seen alot of seperations and stupid Crap cause of rushing into things. And I have seen things bloom into very special mometns that I believe will last for a life or two...

Marriage for me is one time deal that is it no turning back..

right now I know it's a lovely idea, but I am still looking back just to makesure the net is there.

It's sometime hard to believe it's that good and you think is this it? am I going to get screwed?

Then a light turns on and you know that waiting is fine cause you have a long life ahead of yah.. =D

I am thankful cause I have very cool friends and love ones that have taught me alot. And I think I am going ot carry myself well when I do get married..

Well If I do that is..


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Jun. 21st, 2003 07:34 pm (UTC)
mawwaige is whot bwings us togewer today....
you do whats right for you, babe, we'll support ya!
Jun. 22nd, 2003 06:36 pm (UTC)
Ken and I were engaged for 6 years before we got married. I personally believe no one should move in with a lover until they've dated for one year, and no one should marry a fiancee until you've shared a home with them for a year. And you should not have a child until you've been married for at least a year.

If people would just DO THAT, there'd hardly be any need for divorce lawyers, and custody battles. But hey, what do I know?
Jun. 22nd, 2003 06:44 pm (UTC)
Been with hime for over two years.. About to move in with completely .. sort of living with him.. for about five months.

:shrugs: I think no matter the case.. It will be a long time before.. anything happens. Pitt and his wife were together for 7 years. And it just seemed right and when I mean that, I could feel it. In some cases I just don't.

What do you know? you know a bit more than I do at this point, but I am sure one day I will know too ;)
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